The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience. And, paradoxically, the acceptance of one's negative experience is itself a positive experience.
Today is my parents' anniversary and I thought about how one stays in love. With the convenience of swiping left/right for modern romance, I do wonder how most of us will end up in that dept. I'm no expert but I'm a strong believer that nothing is easy. "I don't do easy!"
Nothing worth it comes easy, but it doesn't mean that it won't be an enjoyable ride.